Rules about sex are impossible-what should matter is that what you do makes you feel good. And “feeling good” should last past the sex itself – you should not feel anxious after getting her pregnant or catching some horrible disease, so planning ahead about contraception and safe sex is part of the idea.
What time we have sex?
When you have sex does not really matter. What should matter is that instead of you and your partner have sex when you both feel comfortable. Some people prefer to make love in the morning, some in the afternoon sun, some in the dark of night. More important than the time of day is the time you have to spend. Give yourself plenty of time to have sex for the first time. A weekend is ideal, but at least all day, including sleep time.
Should we eat or drink anything before sex?
Avoid eating a heavy meal, since that will only make you sleepy. Eat light, do not drink too much alcohol, or none at all. Can help you lose inhibitions, but can also make his erection much more difficult to achieve and you want to spend more time in the bedroom to the bathroom, right?
Where should we have sex?
If sex is probably the most important decision. Find a place where both can be private to a maximum of forty-eight hours can be difficult at that age where most people are thinking about losing her virginity. But it’s worth. Cars are no longer large enough to have sex, and the outdoors has less privacy as well as insects, sand and pine needles.
A bed is probably the best thing to make love yet. We hope you have a space for yourself, with all the amenities of a bedroom, such as heat, comfort, space and bathroom. Take a shower together! If you are about to have sex, you’ve had your hands all over each other before now. Meet other’s bodies. Take your time. That’s what is about to make love.
What we need to bring?
Take what you need to make you comfortable. Birth control, condoms, maybe your favorite pillow or a bathrobe.
For her, what should I do first?
You can not expect him to know what makes you feel good. You’ll have to tell or show, and that may mean taking part of the initiative, holding in his hands and placing them where they make you feel good. Go slowly. If this is your first time, may well be totally nervous about what is about to do, and his penis can not respond at first. Patience, gentleness and understanding required to return to life, and it can be difficult for you to achieve, but that’s why I said to take a lot of time.
Does it hurt?
You’ve probably heard horror stories about how much it hurts to lose her virginity. For some women, yes, but with the touch and the right partner, you should be able to take his penis into your body without pain. Have him take his time, using a lubricant, and press with fingers into you, opening it slowly. Tell her when you feel good and when it hurts.
What position should I use?
Many women prefer to have sex for the first time being on top, where you can control the first inning. Others want to be in the background and give their lovers that control. Choose what is best for you. Just remember to tell you to go slowly, take your time, and if you feel the need, use a commercial lubricant like KY Jelly.
For him, what if I can not reach it?
Sound funny, but his penis, which has worked well for years can suddenly go on strike in his first opportunity in the “real” sex. That’s natural – you are nervous. Take a deep breath. Do something else for a while with your hands, your lips and your tongue. Try to forget about your anxiety, and your penis will respond. It’s just a temporary thing.
If I tell if I am a virgin?
Many men think that they are men, which should be in charge of sex, regardless of who has more experience. If you are a virgin and she is not, I say, and let your advantage if you wish. This is both a learning experience as a lover. Do not be afraid to confess the truth. Many women prefer to know that his clumsiness is inexperience, rather than just sheer ineptitude, and gratitude will show you the ways of the world.
Are we going to get together? Do not worry about what orgasm simultaneous, either. Some women do not orgasm during intercourse, and even if your girlfriend can climax, the odds are very much against you coming at the same time. Enjoy yourself, and trust to tell the truth when she is enjoying it.
What if I orgasm too soon?
If you actually climax too soon before you wanted, take your time, take a nap, and try again. The second time should be much more relaxed and ready to take your time – so that his penis.
Am I big enough? Too big? The correct way?
Another common concern is size. The average penis is a little over five and a half inches long when erect, and that’s more than enough to hit every major nerve center in the vagina, the legendary G-spot included. The vagina can stretch to take a large penis, or shape itself to pleasure a little. Size has little to do with his ability as a lover.
Another common problem is the way. Some men worry that their penis is bent down, or left, and assume that because you never see men like them in erotic movies that are not normal. Others worry that a downward bend will make sex difficult or painful because the vagina is not shaped with that bend in mind.
Keep in mind that sex can be performed in any number of positions. The penis and vagina can be matched in many different ways, and each new position can bring new pleasures to you and your partner. Some people believe that a bent penis down is much easier to perform oral sex.
Will I be a good lover?
Being a good lover does not happen automatically. With the right partner practice, time, attention, and you have everything you need to become a great lover. Its early days for you, it will be awkward and clumsy, but hopefully the beginning of great moments for the rest of their lives.
